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Protect yourself from these traps…

Posted by nuruliman45 on December 18, 2009

I came across this video.  Reminds me of the everyday traps that are put out to us to test our iman and our taqwa to ALLAH The Almighty.



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Off to Malacca!

Posted by nuruliman45 on December 11, 2009

Time sure flies.

I’ll be departing off back to Malacca at 9.00 am… a few hours from now.

Bye-bye Mak and Ayah… little spoiled-brat younger siblings…uwa. 😦


Work awaits for me back in Malacca.  Yup, next semester is going to be a REALLY busy one and a semester which will have A LOT of first-experience things to get through.  I just keep in my head that there’s always a first for everything.

Why do I say that?

…Because I’m going to be a teacher!  AAARGH…ala, just a practicum teacher.  But still, it gets my anxiety REALLY up to the top when thinking about it.  EXCITING yet DREADING.  Sekolah Menengah students kowt!  I’ll have to prepare a lesson plan EVERY SINGLE day.  Then there’s the daily journal I’ll have to keep (yup, those mean marks!…assessed).  My responsibility to the community is also not ignored.


Life is not life without challenges.  Strength is not attained without difficulty.  Experience is not gained without experiencing.  Fortitude is not achieved without subtle dependence to ALLAH (yeah! subtle fortitude!!!).

ALLAH got me to it, and HE’ll get me through it.

(ask for all of your du’as ok! 🙂 )

~ Bye-bye Kota Bharu… see ya! 😉

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Hire or Fire!

Posted by nuruliman45 on December 10, 2009

I was chatting with a friend of mine this morning.  Yeah, updating on regular campus news, despite on holiday.

He mentioned an issue he read up on about the Education Ministry proposing to give full authority upon school headmasters to sack their school’s teachers.  Being an education student, and a future English educator, (inshaALLAH) I couldn’t help but check it out.

Yup, the ministry’s actually considering school headmasters in deciding whether or not to fire teachers!

Reason?… To maintain the excellence of schools… ermmm…read below:

From the Star Online:

Deputy Education Minister Dr Puad Zarkashi, in clarifying reports that this would be enforced in all 10,000 schools in the country, said the proposal was to allow the heads in such schools to maintain excellence.

Considering this as something positive – as what Dr. Puad claimed – where this could be a solution in improving the quality of school teaching and enhancing school excellence, it seemed like a good idea.  When it comes to teachers who become teachers and become ‘guru cemerlang’ because they know how to bodek themselves up into their career, this may be a solution.

Indeed, only the headmasters may truly know how their fellow teachers below them work.  And if there are teachers who stay in the schools just for the sake of the monthly salary they obtain, well, surely headmasters could get rid of them without much bureaucracy with the JPN or Ministry itself.  In the end, the school would be able to improve the productivity of the school with all the useless (is that too harsh?) teachers out.

Autonomy sounds like a fine thing for a school to reach ‘kecemerlangan’.


I thought it through again.

How many headmasters in these 10,000 schools actually know their staff well enough to make these kind of decisions – to simply ‘fire’ a school teacher.  And, how reliable are these headmasters to make sure that they do not fire teachers based on bias judgment, or based on self-interests?  You see, when you are working in the same little institution, one same organization, you’re bound to experience internal organizational ‘challenges’ with the whole school team.  No one can run away from it.  Thus,  it’s sometimes these problems that may influence you to make the wrong decisions.

…or should we just all look back at 2010’s Budget and make our own little conclusions on the reason behind this proposal.  wALLAHu’alam.

Read More:

‘Hire or Fire’

Giving HMs power to fire

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KB Mall Tragedy: A rescuer’s side of the story

Posted by nuruliman45 on December 9, 2009

I surprisingly got an unexpected comment to the recent entry I posted the other day.  Couldn’t help but share it with you all.


KB Mall 6 Dis ‘09 : Before the Memory fades from my old temporal lobe and life returns the Usual.

The sales person handed me the change for my wife’s new Sony Ericcson. I quickly put the clamshell into my left pocket ….”Translate: Better not lose it if I needed my hands busy”. Made my way through the crowd less than 1 minute after the booommm. Went stupidly close to the upturned car to take pictures with my handphone (fortunately the car didn’t explode). Through my phone’s screen, I saw a figure lying in a nurse’s uniform in left lateral position 10 feet in front of Watson’s. Nobody was within 5 feet of her.

I hurried to her left and squatted. Saw some movement of her head. Helped by a lady (later found out to be a seasoned clinic nurse) to turn her supine …. I tried maintaining relative immobility of her head. (later realized forgotten the proper way).

The moment I touched her, the same old thought crossed the mind “You are my patient … Allah has intended it to be so for reasons only He knows”

“So much blood from her mouth !!! What to do? In hospital simply suction then intubate” There’s obvious neck muscle movements but nothing else moves. “There must be a pulse coz she’s moving. But how to give her oxygen?”.
Tried opening her mouth. Crackling sensation accompanied . Her maxillary bone was fractured.

Looking at her chest … she appeared the “normal figure” with uniform on. “Should I expose her?? Naah … better not. Can get beaten for indecent behaviour. This is Kelantan”. Tried to pull her tudung to clear the blood of her face and out her mouth. But her head was on her tudung … could’t do it without moving her head.

“Ya Allah … the clock is ticking. I need to do something. Eeemm ..Why not try chest compression. If no cracking sensation and good recoil, her rib cage should be intact” Gave few short ones … felt okay. Then gave her the full blown 100/min in 30s … though may have overdone it to 150/min following my own adrenaline-rushed heart rate.

“Kain!Kain !Kain!! (meaning cloth)” I blurted it out continuously.”Please la, someone hand me something to wipe out all this blood from her mouth”. (Surprised to hear myself later on youtube shouting “kain,kain”). Pop … a pair of white sport socks dropped onto my lap. Well ..better then nothing.

Wiped the blood of her lips. Felt her maxillary bone fragments crackling again. No point asking anyone to do the jaw thrust. “Emmm .. my 7half-size-glove left hand may just stretch enough for my index finger and thumb to hold both her jaw angles”. Tried it. “Alhamdulillah, this may just work”. And the concavity of my left hand’s first web space held her fragmented maxilla good enough for her lip to move apart.

“Direct mouth to mouth?…. Better not. I’d vomit if swallowed her blood. And again this is Kelantan”. “HIV,Hepatitis B,C ….no worry. All student nurses are screened. . I do their RMEs all the time.”
Placed the blood stained sock on her opened lip and gave her the first rescue breath. ‘No can do .”. The air just dissipated through the thick sport socks. No chest rise.

“Kain .. kain …kain!!”. Again I blurted out. Pop … a white kain tudung dropped onto her face. “This is better..Surely I can breathe better thru it compared to the thick socks”.

And so I gave her rescue breaths, realizing only 1 in every 2-3 breaths was followed by a chest rise. Continuously adjusting my left hand grip on her jaws and at the same time feeling her right carotid pulse with my left ring and little finger. Frequently reapplying and folding the kain tudung to breath thru to her until it became fully blood soaked. Occasionally having to spit out my blood stained saliva or wiping my face with my shirt … occasionally having to hold back the strong urge to vomit.

On off pausing to see any spontaneous breathing. She was still trying to catch her own breathe … but to no avail.
Noticed few others coming to help me .. though didn’t have the time to look at their faces. A guy kneeled and whispered “LailahaillAllah” continuously to her right ear. Indeed, his voice was helping her in the most important way … much more than what my blood stained hands and lips could.

Another came to try persuade me to turn her to the left lateral position. I resisted. “Should I tell everyone that I’m a doctor??…”. My low self esteem kicked into gear … so I didn’t and kept quiet. Some other guy who probably had some old school CPR training gave 5 chest compressions every time I paused from my rescue breaths. No point reminding him that it’s unnecessary when there’s patient movement and a pulse. Detrimental to her? Not too sure myself. Perhaps she could do with the adrenaline surge from his chest compressions. “Let him be, he’s trying his best to help. Just don’t stop to long from my rescue breaths or he’ll start pressing again”

It felt like the longest wait for the ambulance. The constant recitation of “LailahaillAllah” kept reminding me that none of us has any power unless what Allah lends to us. None of us could do anything to change what He had decreed for the girl.

”What more can I do ??? Primary and secondary survey perhaps, then cardiac monitoring. What about running intravenous fluids and packed cells?”. “Hey, is there an ultrasound machine on sale here in KB mall I can use for a FAST … my patient sure is turning pale!!” I would be kidding myself to have had such thoughts. Between my rescue breaths , feeling of helplessness ever grows.
The pool of her blood began seeping through my wet pants to my knees. She was bleeding … and it’s not from her mouth. “Clinically cervical injury with comminuted maxillary bone fracture”. Even a 1st year meds school student knows that diagnoses usually comes after “Severe Head Injury”, not before it.
As her pupils began to react sluggishly and dilate, her carotid pulse brady and weak .. I began to wonder whether I’m torturing her and delaying the inevitable. Should I have just watched her from the sideline from the beginning. A pakcik wearing a kopiah tapped my right shoulder and asked me to let her go. “What should I do??” Am I her doctor to pronounce her DIL (Death in line) in public.? Or am I just a bystander who should continue doing the basic until proper help arrives??


“Thinking about it now .. I didn’t delay the inevitable. Allah has taken her the very second she was written to be .. in a place where no one would aspect to be in an MVA (motorvehicle accident). Looking back at it now … I was helping the other man as long as he can to remind her of Allah’s oneness LailahaillAllah. She barely moved, but I hope she was listening … and her heart accepting.
As she became very pale , I began giving chest compressions. Her blood pressure must be very low .. she’s gasping but I hardly felt her pulse. “Pushing blood to the brain” was how we crudely relate about chest compression at the casualty unit … sometimes joking about it.

I could hear sirens wailing for minutes. As the guys on my left and right began stepping back out of my hindsight, I was left alone again with the dying girl. And as the paramedics placed their emergency bag on the floor, I requested an oropharyngeal airway. They obliged. Placed it in her mouth, and gave her 2 good rescue breaths. Requested the laryngoscope and an endotracheal tube ETT. Gave more rescue breaths and attempted intubation. The ETT without an introducer stylet wouldn’t bend upward thru her cords. Sure took a while for the paramedic to find the introducer.

Post intubation, an honorable fellow doctor helped to ascertain air entry and cervical collar placement. Again the public lend in their hands for a perfect supine lift of her onto the stretcher.

After a few words with the paramedic, I quickly made my way through the crowd as I’ve given the Sony Ericsson box to a bystander. I gave her one last look across my shoulder and realized I have forgotten one last important thing.

I walked back to her …. took the fully blood stained kain tudung which had been the lifeline between me and her, and placed it onto her exposed neck and upper chest. She was a Muslim .. so let me leave her as one. That night I learned from TV3 news she passed away on the way to hospital.

Al-Fatihah … may Allah accept her as a Muslim and a Mukmin. Amin.

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Car flew down 3 stories!

Posted by nuruliman45 on December 7, 2009



It was almost 7 o’clock yesterday.  I was on my way to my Nenek’s house, when I received an SMS asking if I had heard about the front part of KB Mall ‘runtuh’ (collapsing) that afternoon.  I was like, what??? How could it collapse???

..comes to show how important words are in giving out statements…

KB Mall is just about a mile or so from home.  Thought I’d turn back to see if KB Mall did actually collapse or not.  But figured there’d be like a huge jam and lots of people, so I decided to get later news on it.

It was until around 9 that night when my uncle, who’s a doctor at Perdana Hospital, got back from an errand and told the real story, as he got news on the girls reaching HUSM  and other details via e-mail (a bulletin e-mail went through his ‘doctor clique’  e-mail group or something).

What actually happened was that a car from the external parking lot on the roof of KB Mall smashed through a wall where the car was initially parked,  plunged 3 stories, and landed between two escalators on the ground floor.


…First time hearing about it, it sounded one of those Jackie Chan movies.  Looking at the pictures confirmed it was for real.

Hope ALLAH gives patience to the families involved, and may HE bless the souls of the girls sacrificed… phew~ talk about trauma.

READ: News headline on it

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